Anya’s opinion
“The Nehrings are about a fifth of the way through their trip across the U.S. Josh and Stacy said they’ve talked to so many people and still have a lot to do when they get back to Rapid. I thought it was interesting that Josh mentioned that he uses an app called Strava that connects millions of runners, cyclists, hikers, walkers and other active people through the sports they love. And he said that as far as he can tell, he runs more daily than anyone else in the world! I love that they can feel Lilli pushing them and encouraging them along the way. They do live updates on Instagram @wesrvivrs.”
In early June, the Nehring family embarked on a remarkable journey: selling their home and buying an RV to launch the Black Pearl Project. Their mission is to turn grief into a gift by walking to every U.S. Capitol building in the lower 48 states and dedicating each day to the memory of a special person.
An eventful adventure
Since June 3, the Nehrings have run over 2,600 miles, the equivalent of more than 100 marathons. Josh Nehring, who leads the running effort, has averaged about 50 miles per day.
Along the way, the family has met hundreds of people, many of whom have shared their own stories of loss and connection. The project has become a beacon of hope for those struggling with grief, and the family’s RV serves as a poignant symbol of their mission.
Challenges and wonders
The journey was not without its challenges. Living in a confined space and keeping to a strict schedule tested the family’s resilience.
Despite the difficulties, they have experienced daily miracles, from the physical endurance they needed to run one marathon after another to the intimate connections they have made with strangers who have found comfort in their story.
Honoring Lily’s legacy
The Nehrings lost their daughter Lilli in a car accident when she was just 13 years old. With the Black Pearl Project, they keep their legacy of kindness and compassion alive.
The family hopes to inspire the formation of survivor groups across the United States to offer support to others who have suffered similar losses. Their story has touched countless lives, and many people find comfort in knowing that their loved ones are still present in spirit.
Every mile, a connection
Josh’s daily runs expose him to all kinds of weather, physical challenges, and even the unpleasant sight of roadkill. Despite these obstacles, he stays focused on his mission, fueling his body with 5,000 to 7,000 calories a day, and savoring the little moments, like a peanut butter and honey sandwich with blueberries.
The family also takes time to explore local attractions and learn about each state they visit. They plan to begin homeschooling in the fall.
Community support
The Black Pearl Project has received tremendous support from the Rapid City community and beyond. Mike Albin, the owner of Black Hills Running Company, has made a significant contribution, donating shoes for Josh’s trip.
This partnership was crucial because the demands of running such long distances require constant shoe replacement.
Planting the seeds of healing
The Nehring family’s mission is not just to run; it’s also about sowing the seeds of healing and support for others. They have inspired many people along the way by sharing Lilli’s story and the work of the survivor groups they hope to create.
The family feels the love and support from their followers on social media and the people they meet in person, all of whom help make this journey possible.
A spiritual journey
During this adventure, the Nehrings have felt the presence of their daughter Lilli and other loved ones who have passed away. Josh often experiences moments of physical and emotional relief while running and feels like he is being carried by a higher power.
These experiences are a source of comfort and strength and enable the family to continue their mission with renewed energy and determination.
Follow the journey
The Black Pearl Project continues to inspire and connect people across the country.
As the Nehrings move on, they carry with them the memories of those they honor and the hope of bringing healing to others on their journey.
