Bachelorette star Jenn Tran insults her colleague Sam M in the “Men Tell All” special

The Bachelorette Contestant Sam M not only had an unfortunate fate on the show, but was also reprimanded by Jenn Tran.

The 26-year-old Bachelorette presented the first rose to Devin and the second to Marcus – sending semi-finalist Jonathan Johnson home.

The show has now also had its controversial special edition Men tell everything where the Bachelorette’s ex-boyfriends come together for a reflection that confronted Sam M with a long-awaited bitter truth in the face of his elimination.

“We didn’t talk and at the end of the day, he didn’t even know me,” Jenn said as she took the stage after Sam continued talking about how much he loved her.

Jenn felt that Sam showed “blatant disrespect” toward the other men. “The whole time, everything was about you,” she continued.

Jenn also addressed online statements from Sam’s relatives regarding his appearance on the show.

“You’re a grown man and instead of taking responsibility for your actions, you decided to blame the producers, the editor, the TV show or whatever,” Jenn said. “And at the end of the day, the man on TV was the exact man I was sitting across from for the entire journey.”

The aspiring medical assistant told Sam that she wanted him to “feel better” after his appearance on the show.

“But if you don’t step back and look at what you saw and take responsibility for your actions and grow and learn, then I feel very, very sorry for whoever you end up with, because this delusional world you’re living in right now and this denial is not going to work for anyone,” Jenn warned her former admirer.

In return, Sam thanked Jenn for helping him grow. “I definitely lost myself in some of those moments and wish I could go back and relive them honestly,” Sam told Jenn.

Before Jenn’s confession, Sam had claimed he loved Jenn “100%” when he told her that before his elimination. Sam, 27, also denied rumors that he came on the show hoping Daisy Kent or Maria Georgas would be the Bachelorette.

“I remember telling my parents, ‘Honestly, I don’t think it’s going to work out with either of them,'” Sam claimed.

At another point in the show, the conversation turned to who Aaron, 29, thought had bad intentions by appearing on the show. He named Devin, Sam M and Spencer.

In a separate statement to PeopleJenn also reflected on what it was like to face her former admirers at the Men tell everything Special broadcast on August 27th.

“I have grown so much through this journey that I am a completely different person now than I was then,” she told the outlet.

“I have a new confidence and a new empowerment. When I look back on everything, there are definitely certain situations with (the guys) that gave me a lot of clarity in hindsight. I was like, ‘Oh, now I can say exactly what went wrong here and why I felt that way or why I didn’t stand up for myself.'”

She concluded by saying that she wanted women all over the world to realize that they should not settle for less than they deserve.